When we express love, we express it in different means and if someone can decode these means and symbols then that can tell you a lot about your love language.
Understanding your love language will not only help you become a better lover but will also help you understand a lot more about your partner and it is a very healthy thing to do.
However, before we embark on the journey of decoding your love language let us find out what is love language.
WHAT IS LOVE LANGUAGE?
Love language is not necessarily a language but it can be language and actions and behaviour and emotions and much more that you utilise to express your love for your partner.
Sometimes your love language can be conscious and sometimes it can often be conscious because you truly love that person.
However, we all can agree that understanding and diving deep into love language can not only help you become a better lover but can help you express your love even better.
Understanding love language is important because it will also help you understand and get a glimpse of the depth of love your partner has for you and understanding this is quite important.
Now that we know what is love language, let us understand and decode what your love language says about you and how you can sweeten your relationship.
DECODING LOVE LANGUAGE
· PHYSICAL TOUCH
This is probably one of the most universal and one of the most common signs of love language as it is a very simple but very powerful love language.
Physical touch expresses one simple thing and that is that your partner finds and is comfortable with you. When your partner initiates physical touch then that means they are trusting you.
Physical touch also means that it is very easy to initiate physical intimacy which can always improve a relationship.
Physical touch can be anything from holding hands, kissing, sitting with your partner and maybe cuddling and much more.
You must always make sure that you initiate physical touch in a very comfortable way because this is one of the best ways to have a very strong love language without even using words.
Physical touch can be comforting in stressful situations and can be helpful to you and your partner during difficult times.
When we think of love language, we always think of all the actions and complex things that lovers do for each other and we forget one of the simplest but probably the most important love language in the world.
We are of course talking about spending time with one another because this is one of the simplest ways to connect with your partner and that is to be with them.
Spending time with your partner does not take money nor does it take a complex understanding of the human mind.
Spending time with your partner simply takes willpower and the will to be there with your partner during important moments.
It is sharing simple and complex things with them and it is being a constant in their life.
You can buy your lover and your partner all the gifts in the world but they will never be as valuable as you spending time with them.
Therefore, you need to keep in mind that quality time might vary from person to person but it is important to spend that time.
Perhaps you and your partner can work together on a family business or perhaps you both can have some quality time watching movies or anything else but spending time is important no matter how you spend it.
When it comes to love language giving and receiving gifts is one of the simplest ways to express your appreciation for your partner.
However, giving gifts is one of the most complex ways of expressing your love language because there are different layers to gifting.
One of the things you must understand is that giving too many gifts might have the opposite effect because you might not be present in their special moments but you may try to substitute that with gifts.
Or you might make mistakes and you might try to substitute that with gifts because if you do these things then the benefit of giving gifts and expressing the love language will be lost in the process.
That is why you must make sure that you not only give your partner gifts but you must gift them only on the most special occasions and these gifts must be given to them only by you.
It is also good to surprise them from time to time but you must make sure to be there when they receive the gift.
You must also make sure that the selection of gifts is appropriate because when it comes to love language and giving gifts this is the most important thing.
It is totally up to you what you want to gift but you must make sure that the gift must not only be something valuable but it must also be something useful.
By value, we do not mean that you should cost a lot but by value we mean that it must be something very meaningful to your partner.
It is a safe bet to gift your partner things that they are passionate about.
Apart from that, there are also different other types of love language and one of them can be words of appreciation and affirmation.
It is simply expressing how proud you are of your partner if they do something good and telling them that everything is going to be alright if they do not experience success in something.
This was the blog on love language and how you can sweeten your relationship with different manifestations of love language.